This weekend we celebrated Laurie‘s 35th over on her gorgeous patio, with Karman & Shannon, Penny, Gwen, Faith, and Amber in attendance. There was plenty of wine, girl talk, and righteous indignation. At least on my part.
You see, Laurie was telling this story about this harmlessly nefarious character from her past, not letting her drive his car because, OMG, it had a SPOILER. Because girls can’t drive cars with spoilers.
And anyway, I pipe up, “My car has a spoiler!”
And Karman is all, “Yeah, a spoiler. But a spoiler on a granola-eating, Birkenstock-wearing car.”
I GOT SO OFFENDED. In fact, I was embarassed later about how all sorts of LOUD and offended I got. BUT THAT IS MY CAR.
Yes, it is a 2000 Subaru Outback Impreza, but it is an Outback Impreza SPORT, people! There is like one of those scoopy, drafty things on the front to draw in air for when I overheat it in a race! The Subaru wins the rally championship practically every year!! How many more exclamation points should I put to indicate my outrage??!!!
Bollocks.
Driving is a Big Deal in my family. My dad races vintage cars for a hobby. That’s him:
The time your family spends around the table talking about the weather or movies or whatever your filler conversation topic of choice is? Is the time my family talks about bad drivers and the latest car models. Your car is WHO YOU ARE.
LA just exacerbates this familial oddity. What do you drive?
So when Karman told me I was the equivalent of a Volvo driver? I FREAKED.
Poor Karman.
Little did she know that a lot of my freakdom came from the fact that my car hit 90,000 miles a few weeks ago. And that I’m starting to realize I’ll need a new one. At least I will after I graduate.
So I drive along the highways of LA, to Laurie’s in the Valley, across town to work and back. I peer into people’s windows. The Honda CRV, the Prius, the BMW wagon, the Toyota 1983 Land Cruiser, what will I be? Will I pretty? Will I be rich? Here’s what they said to me: Que sera, sera.
I thought that by 30 I’d have it all figured out. But nope, I’m just 6 months shy and still don’t know what I will be.
But dammit. It will be rockin’. And so will my car, whatever it is. Que sera, sera.
*That line, BTW, is adopted from one of my favorite movies ever, Mr. Blandings Builds His Dream House, with Myrna Loy and Cary Grant.